heart to heart conversations are too few these days. Torin, Jed, and I had one last night. Call us chicks or sentimental or whatever, but i enjoyed it. What i didnt enjoy was going to sleep at 6 am because we talked so much. What torin is going through and what he said pretty much exactly reminds me of myself. Im not super attractive. Im not really extraordinary in any sense. I think that torin is though. One of the smartest people i know. He's skinny, fit, and pretty ripped too. So, kind of like what I aim for in a way. To hear him say that he didnt think that he was particularly attractive or special in any sort of way made me think: maybe people do think that i am attractive or talented or whatever. I never really wanted to make that assumption because it seemed pretty arrogant. Theres a fine line between being realistic and optimistic, and arrogant. After yesterday, i realize that yes, i have my flaws, but i do have some advantages. What torin said about how the girl he liked being perfection and how perfection should have to settle for him got me thinking as well. What if someone out there thinks of us as "perfection"? thats scary and flattering to think about. What if one of the girls im interested in right now sees me in that light? it's so hard because theres no real foolproof way to tell. I do like some girls in my own grade, but most of the girls i am interested in are younger than me. i used to feel weird about this. i mean, im a whole 4 yrs older than a freshman. but then i thought, my parents are 10 yrs apart and there are plenty of couples like that in the world. So assuming that theyre in a younger grade, i guess i do have a few advantages that i never really considered. I'm a senior. im like the top dog. the fucking shit. i guess im kind of a badass sometimes. at least thats wat people say, idk why though. and i guess im decently popular and liked. i heard that it was a close thing when they voted on homecoming court. which really surprised me by the way. i didnt think anyone would vote for me. i guess im fit ish. im humorous, very dry humor, but humor is humor. my speech impediment seems like a major flaw, but something on formspring said that it was charming. im fairly musically educated. im decent at the piano. and by decent i mean that im pretty dam good for my age and i dont think theres anyone at school who is better than me, but im not professional quality...yet. i guess i can sing. i dont think i was placed correctly, but vocal ensemble has to mean something right? im getting sleepy, so ima take a nap now :)